Okay, so let's put aside the fact that this may not have been the most well-researched piece of journalism and that it's much more alarmist than it perhaps needs to be. And the whole taking someone's perspective out of context and twisting it to fit the swing of one's article is so very not cool. But if there is something positive to come out of this article, I see it as the discussion that can be started, especially among those of us who have young children in our lives.
Now here's my opinion after reading this piece, and I have to say that my perspective is influenced by a couple of factors.
- The last 13 years of my life have been immersed in the world of young children-- first as a preschool teacher, and then as a mom. As a reader myself, I've always made books a high priority in both my classroom and home environments.
- Nine of those years were spent in a laboratory school setting on a university campus. Thus, the majority of the population of families I worked with were highly educated, and often affluent.
- Living in the DC metro area is a significant factor all on its own, especially when it comes to parenting practices.
So, given all those factors, I have to say that much of the article rang true to me. Now, perhaps this would have been better featured as an opinion or editorial piece rather than a news story, which might have lessened the negative responses, I'm not sure. But here's the thing, I've spent years hearing parents enthusiastically espouse many of the points of this article. Hearing a parent of a four year old tell me "We're reading Harry Potter together as a read-aloud," as a way to convince me of their child's above average intelligence honestly makes me cringe. Over the years, I've been witness to many, many of these "genius children" (Washington, DC, is very much like Lake Wobegon when it comes to smart children), and many of these parents dismiss picture books as below their children's abilities.
C'mon! I have three genius children of my own, and I credit their exposure to picture books as a major factor! My ten year old was an early reader, and has always "tested" as reading on a much higher level than his age, but guess what? He still enjoys listening in on read-alouds that I'm having with his younger siblings, and when I rave about a new picture book that came in for review, he pulls it off the shelf to see for himself. I've read in some comments in reaction to this article that some people see picture books purely for read alouds, for use only with an adult who can "translate" it for kids. Oh no, I strongly disagree. My four year old can't read (she's still learning her letters, which could be seen as developmentally delayed by some folks in this area), but she can kick a picture book's ass all on her own, creating a story from the pictures that often rivals the author's own creativity.
I look at this issue just as I do the reading aloud issue. Just because your child knows how to read independently, that doesn't mean you should stop reading to them. Sharing a story by read aloud is enjoyable for people of all ages, and it shouldn't be a badge of honor that you don't "have to" read aloud to your child anymore. As it is with picture books- their beauty and stories and value shouldn't decrease just because a child can read a chapter book on their own. And as parents, we're the ones who influence our children's exposure to materials like books-- so I encourage parents to keep the picture books around for enjoyment long after they seem to be at your child's "reading level."
But for the article itself, my own personal experiences back up much of what is discussed. So much of parenting often feels like a competition (again, living in the DC area might be a major factor here); from sleeping through the night to potty training to learning to read, everything is open to comparison. If our success as parents is seen through the lenses of our children moving on to the "next step," which is unfortunately the case for many whether they admit it or not, then reading skills and materials are huge events. Education as a whole has been "pushing down" curriculum and expectations to younger and younger children, and parents often follow suit. So while it may not be representative as the best news story, I certainly can relate to the piece on an anecdotal level.
Just my two cents, for what that's worth. In no way do I mean to degrade anyone else's opinion on the matter or on the article itself, but I felt compelled to offer my perspective to the mix.
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I think it's your asides that tell the biggest story. In New York and DC and LA and Seattle, there's a competition for raising children. Everyone has to be the best and the brightest and the most amazing, and they're just not allowed to be KIDS. And perhaps it was that phenomena that the NYT reporter saw and, because the economy is the way it is, they had the numbers to back it up.
ReplyDeleteI can assure you that here in Kansas, we still read picture books to our kids (my 10 year old still goes through the pile from the library every week, and my 14 year old was just as excited as I was -- oh, and as much as the 4 year old -- when we bought Knuffle Bunny Free). And we don't really push them to do much of anything. Except maybe shoot a gun. ;-)
I feel bad for the kids who have missed out on picture books. It's like they're missing out on childhood.
I hadn't seen any of this. Sort of surprised since I'm sort of plugged in with kidlit folks on twitter (though I'm not on twitter 24-7).
ReplyDeleteAnyway--this was written for ME! I didn't "push" big kid books on my kids, but I never really got picture books, and Amanda really did go from being read to to Magic Treehouse type chapter books. And as a parent -- a book like that would entertain her/keep her occupied for an hour or more, whereas she'd be through with a picture book in 10 minutes. THAT was my rationale.
But Kyle loves them. He WILL read them, unlike chapter books (that he could read), so did I push him? No. I sought out books that interested him.
But as for why I don't (still) and never really did BUY picture books -- absolutely the high price tag is in there as a big factor. I can buy 2 softcover books or 3 board books for the price of a picture book. $15 to $20 is high.
My grandmother read Ulysses to my father while she was still pregnant just so that I'd be an early reader.
ReplyDeleteInteresting. I hadn't heard about any of this hubbub. But I was kind of chuckling to myself. I read chapter books to Audrey (5) all the time because she loves to sit and listen. I finally got fed up with reading twenty tiny kid books and wanted something that would last awhile. I certainly didn't to it to pressure her academically.
ReplyDeleteAnd even if I was, it must have totally backfired, because my intelligent girl (who had known her letters and all their sounds since two) has ZERO interest in learning to read. She would much rather be read TO than to put in the effort to figure it all out. Ho hum.
Thanks for the links, comments and discussion.
INTERESTING stuff. Very much so. You know this is a topic near and dear to my heart as well. I am a HUGE fan of the picture book. I used to motivate myself to floss my teeth by allowing myself to purchase one picture book for every 30 days I flossed before bed :) I love them for the illustrations, for the depth of the stories (of course, there are those that are NOT deep, but it's amazing how powerful these "short" stories can be) and for all the different places these stories can take us to.
ReplyDeleteWhen I was homeschooling Xavier, I was AMAZED by the variety of books out there on every single subject I could come up with. I don't have time to read my child a biography on every person I think he should know about - but a picture book about that person? PERFECT. You get a feel for their personality, the major events and a sense of "place" without being bored or even knowing you're learning :)
Like JAM, I still find Sheely picking up our picture books out of the library basket - and tonight, too, I caught Xavier reading a picture book he was bored with the first time I tried to read it to him a year ago.
I hope there will always be new and interesting picture books around my house - since my kids aren't the only ones who read them :)
Thanks for bring this up!
Hmm... I think you're probably right about your environment (DC area, highly educated parents, etc.) having a lot to do with the practice of "competitive parenting." Every time I read a memoir from a mother in the beltway or New York, I thank God I live in the Midwest. Parenting is a bit more relaxed here.
ReplyDeleteThat's not to say that the general "super-parenting" syndrome doesn't affect Midwesterners, though. I think a lot of moms feel inadequate--but they don't seem to spend as much time/energy/money trying to "get ahead" as it seems some East Coast parents might be doing (again, based on my reading of memoirs--which is, admittedly, a bit one-sided!)
I have mixed picture books with chapter books starting when Alex was in kindergarten. But a big part of the problem is that he is required to read 15 minutes a night 5 nights a week, so that takes a lot of read-aloud time away. He has started reading out in the loft while I read to Zach, and he will often come in if we have a new book or something he wants to hear. He's just as happy to have me read to him as he is to read himself.
ReplyDeleteI do want to start reading Harry Potter with him, at 7 I think he's old enough now. But the homework required reading time has made it difficult to get started.
As an adult, I still like picture books because illustrations in books can be art pieces. I think the attitude that picture books don't matter perhaps feeds into the whole idea that arts education doesn't matter.
ReplyDeleteI guess what we need is more standardized tests to measure worth. Yeah, that'll do it.