friday's five, a celebration of family

When we expose our children to a variety of stories and experiences through children's literature, we are providing those "mirrors" and "windows" that they need. Picture books that focus on families are abundant, because the theme is so immediately relatable to children. This post could easily be ten times as long and still be filled with quality choices. I hope that these five make for a good starting point!

1. Mommy's Khimar written by Jamilah Thompkins-Bigelow and illustrated by Ebony Glenn

The cover of this book immediately appealed to me because of the joyful love that is apparent between the child and the mother. This book does a lovely job of introducing what a khimar is to readers who may be unfamiliar with the article of clothing, as well as to simply and straightforwardly present a young Muslim girl's playful love for an item of her mother's that brings her happiness. The young girl dons her mother's khimar and delights in the kind of pretend play that comes naturally to kids. All the while, she is reminded of her mama, which gives her comfort. Children from all different cultural and religious backgrounds will see a story about the love between a parent and a child, while Muslim children will see their world reflected in a beautiful picture book. The illustrations are warm and colorful, and the story balances the narrative and the presentation of information smoothly.

2. When the Cousins Came written and illustrated by Katie Yamasaki

Lila can't contain her excitement for the visit of her cousins, Rosie and Takeo. With only a baby brother in her family, Lila is thrilled to have big kids to play with and makes big plans for their visit. Rosie and Takeo have a strong sibling bond, and Lila feels a little bit left out at times. Lila discovers that her cousins do lots of things differently than she does. In fact, when the big backyard camping plan goes awry, she wonders if she should just go be by herself, but her cousins show their appreciation in a special way helping them to all see what can bring them together instead of focusing on their differences. 

3. Snow Sisters!: Two Sisters, One Snowy Day written by Kerri Kokias and illustrated by Teagan White

From the beginning, it's clear that these sisters each have their own way to do things. One peek at their shared bedroom shows one side neat and tidy and the other... not so much. When they awaken to a snowy day, their initial reactions differ, as well, with one sister quickly donning her outdoor gear to explore in the wintry weather, while the other curls up with a hot cocoa and some books. They go about their day on different schedules, always happily acknowledging the other even though they're not playing directly together, and by the end of the day, they find themselves joyfully celebrating together. The simple text makes this book accessible to toddlers, and preschoolers will surely enjoy spotting a fun pattern to the story.

4. Love, Mama written and illustrated by Jeanette Bradley

Kipling, an adorable, anthropomorphized penguin, waves goodbye to his mother who is heading off on a long trip. While she's away, Kipling looks to substitutes like a photo of her or a stuffed pillow he tries to pretend is her, but none provide the cuddling and love she does. Some time passes, and though Mama doesn't come home yet, she does send a package of his favorite things along with a special note reminding him of her love. He sends of his own package to Mama, and finally, the day arrives for her return, which comes with a giant hug and smiles galore. For young children who have a parent or caregiver who travels or is away from home for military or work assignments, this gentle story provides reassurance that they are loved and thought of frequently.

5. Drawn Together written by Minh Lê and illustrated by Dan Santat

A young boy is dropped off at his grandfather's house, and by the look on his face, readers will quickly figure out that he isn't terribly excited for the visit. From the foods they eat to the languages they speak, it seems that the boy and his grandfather don't have anything in common. With communication a challenge, the boy pulls out his art supplies and begins to draw a colorful character holding a magic wand. Upon seeing this, his grandfather's eyes light up, and he quickly brings over his own sketch pad, brush, and inkwell. What follows is an adventure like no other, told through the two very different art styles. The two connect in a way like never before, and they learn about each other and even themselves, through their shared art experience. The illustrations in this book are amazing beyond description. This is a must see.

If you're preparing to celebrate a holiday with your own family around this time of the year, perhaps one or more of these books can add to the fun.


Happy reading,